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Get Paid! How To Ask A Client For Payment Without Being Rude (+ Templates)

Olivia De Santos
May 11, 2022

We’ve all been there. Twiddling our thumbs as we wait for a client to pay us. The date of the invoice deadline swims past and the thoughts start to crop up:


“Should I chase my client for payment?”


“Are they going to pay me at all?”


“How am I going to pay rent this month – do they know how stressful this is?”


If you are reading this, you’re probably in the same repetitive thought cycle that consumes many freelancers and solopreneurs when it comes to chasing payment.


We want to keep our clients happy so how do we word our chaser email in a polite way? When is it reasonable to start chasing? I’m going to break that all down in today’s article.



I’ll even throw in some bonus tips to ensure you (almost) never have to chase for payment again.


Why is my client taking so long to pay me?


I first want to touch on the reasons why some clients may delay when paying us.


I don’t know about you but when I have a late-paying client, it often feels personal. I cast my mind back and wonder if I have offended them in some way. I worry if I’ll get paid at all and neurotically check my contracts to see what legal backup I would have for claiming payment if the client disappears.


If you are not in this mindset, feel free to skip to the next section. To my fellow Type As out there pulling their hair out at this moment – I’ve got you. Here are the real reasons why your client is taking too long to pay you.


  • They forgot
    9 times out of 10 your client just forgot about your invoice. You know those inbox items you pin at the top and then never get around to? Congratulations – your invoice is on that list.
  • They are waiting until payday
    If you send your invoice in the middle of the month and it is a particularly large sum, your client could be waiting until the end of the month when funds are likely to drop.
  • They have other outstanding financial commitments
    If the client is having some difficulties financially, they will rarely let their vendors know. You have to be proactive in reaching out if you suspect this is the case.
  • They have no intention of paying you
    This is super rare but it wouldn’t be fair to write an article without mentioning this briefly. Sometimes the client just doesn’t want to pay you for some reason or another. We will dive into this in another article but generally, there are a few warning signs to let you know they don’t intend to pay at all.


client taking so long to pay but take your time, I will live forever



When to start chasing for payment


I can’t be the only person out there who sends an invoice on a Monday morning and then obsessively checks their bank account all Monday afternoon to see if the money has arrived… or am I?


The question behind the question here is when is an invoice considered “late”?


The first thing to review is whatever it says on your contract or the agreed terms before you started the work. There is the date that the invoice is created and the date that the invoice is due.


You can, in theory, set payment terms that your invoice is due the date that you send it, but there is commonly a grace period. This grace period is particularly important for online businesses.


How long does a client have to pay an invoice?


  • Due on receipt
    The “due on receipt invoice” is common practice for those who require upfront payment or deposits to get started.
  • Net 15
    The most common grace period is 15 days from the date of the invoice.
  • Net 30
    Depending on where you live, many invoices will refer to a 30 day grace period to pay an invoice. After this point the invoice is late.


You can, in theory, start chasing your client as soon as the invoice due date has passed but keep in mind the grace period that was set.


My advice would be to wait for another 4-7 days after the end of the payment term before chasing the payment.


This is simply anecdotal. Sometimes the client pays on the last possible day of the invoice and it takes a couple of days to arrive in your bank account.


When to send payment reminder emails


It is okay to ask for payment and remind your client that their invoice is due. Try not to overthink this process.


The best course of action is to remind before and after to give your client plenty of wiggle room:


  • Send a payment reminder 2 weeks before the invoice is due
  • Send a reminder on the day of the due date
  • Send a chasing email 1 week after the invoice is due
  • Send a chasing email 2 weeks after the invoice is due
  • Send a chasing email 1 month after the invoice is due


When NOT to chase for payment


  • If you haven’t fulfilled the payment’s full terms
    Simply put, if you haven’t done the time, then the client has done no crime! You most likely have done the work but triple-check that all deliverables are there just in case.
  • If the invoice is within the payment terms
    I have had people chase me for payment as soon as they have issued an invoice before. Frankly, it feels very icky. I am usually a fast payer but it could take a couple of days to settle things. If the client is within their payment terms, relax! You chasing them before you have a right to, will come off desperate.
  • If your client’s given you fair warning
    Stuff happens and it’s fair to give your client grace if you know stuff is happening. For example, if you know your client recently gave birth, now is not the time to come knocking at their virtual door! Give them a bit of breathing room to gather themselves before you prod them. It’s a case of good customer service.



How to request payment (with templates!)


I have been so kind as to give you actual example templates I would use to chase for payment. The trick is to start soft and progressively get more serious.


You don’t want to start off all guns blazing “where is my money??!!”. It screams desperation and that client will not want to work with you again.


Template #1: Payment is Due Today


Payment reminder email


Text to copy paste:




I hope you are doing well!


This is a notification to let you know that your invoice [INVOICE NUMBER] of [INVOICE AMOUNT] is due on [DATE].


The payment details are on the invoice attached.


If you have any questions or payment issues, please do let me know.


Best regards,


Template #2: Payment is 1 Week late


Payment 1 week past due reminder email


Text to copy paste:




I hope you are well!


According to my accounts, I have not yet received the payment for invoice [INVOICE NUMBER] which was due on [DATE].


I have reattached the invoice in case you didn’t receive my prior emails.


I appreciate you must be busy but please do let me know when you have completed the payment. If you have any questions or payment issues, please do not hesitate to contact me.


Best regards,


Template #3: Payment is 2 Weeks late


Payment 2 weeks past due reminder email


Text to copy paste:




I hope you are doing well!


I have not yet received payment for invoice [INVOICE NUMBER] of [INVOICE AMOUNT], which was due on [DATE]. The payment details are on the invoice attached.


If you have any questions or payment issues, please do let me know.




Template #4: Payment is 4 Weeks late


Payment 1 month past due reminder email


Text to copy paste:




This is another reminder that you have not yet sent payment for invoice [INVOICE NUMBER] of [INVOICE AMOUNT], which was due on [DATE]. The invoice is one month overdue.
The payment details are on the invoice attached.


I request that you promptly make this payment.
If you have any questions or payment issues, please reach out to me at your earliest convenience.





What to do if that doesn’t work


If your persistent, polite and punctual emails are not getting through, now is the time to take things onto another platform.


Most would advise that you call the client if your emails are not getting through. I would suggest sending a text message first just to try and arrange the call. This is particularly important if you work with overseas clients.


Send a message to ask to arrange a “chat” about settling their account. Try not to stress out when you do this. Remain calm and polite. Give them at least 48 hours to respond to you before prodding them again.


How to never be paid late again


1. Make sure you have backup funds


This is more of a preventative measure on your end than the other way around.


Running a good business is all about building systems and fail-safes. I know that the money owed is definitely important, but your business should not hang on one client’s invoice being paid. We joke that one client’s invoice is the difference between paying rent or not, but how stressful is that as a way of life?


My solution would be to plan for that money to be late. Do your business budgeting a month in advance and only count that money in the bank as arriving 7 days after it is due to arrive. Just trust me on this.


If your client pays early or on time, happy days! No need to panic. If they do pay late, then you have accounted for this in your budget and you won’t starve. It’s also a reason why having an emergency fund is so important.


2. Use an accounting system & reminders


Not every online accounting system will have auto-reminders as a feature, but having one is still a saving grace. Why? Well, you can normally automatically send out reminders that look far more official than a simple email. There is something about a reminder from an accounting system that removes you from the equation.


The impersonal touch can often work in your favour.


Accounting systems also help you keep track of when invoices are due and when it is time to chase.


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3. Have a solid contract


Too many freelancers don’t have solid contracts. Your agreement needs to contain:



4. Understand how your client communicates


In all my years of working with clients, I have realised that asking how a client best communicates is extremely important. Some people just aren’t tied to their inbox the same way we are. They may need a nudge on WhatsApp or a phone call to be able to pin them down. Maybe they have an assistant you can contact, or an accounts team.


Knowing this information upfront saves you a lot of headache.


5. Take a deposit before beginning your work


This somewhat depends on the industry that you are in, but deposits really should be more commonplace. I do not lift a finger until my deposit is paid, and this requires a literal level of investment from the client upfront.


Wrap Up


A late paying client can be frustrating. Unfortunately, as freelancers and solopreneurs, we’ll have to deal with late payment every once in a while. If you have clear payment terms, a solid contract and a system for chasing payment, you will save yourself a lot of stress!


Be calm, polite and direct with your request for payment and you will be more likely to achieve success with your clients.



Olivia De Santos

About The Author

Olivia De Santos is a freelance writer, wedding planner and entrepreneur from London, UK. She's a world traveller, wordsmith, film buff, mental health advocate and shea butter enthusiast.